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It's time for the life you actually want.

You already know what you want to end. In The Breakup Room, you're surrounded by people who won't talk you into staying, who trust what you know, and who are making the same move you are.

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Founding rate available through September 30.

What You're Walking Into

Every other week, you get to say out loud what you've been fantasizing in your head for months.

Live on Zoom with people navigating their own breakups. You bring the situation you've been wanting to walk away from. You get direct input from Elizabeth and from people who are courageously working through their own transition too. You leave with confidence knowing what you're going to do next, not just how you feel about it.

Between sessions, a new friend who is making the same move you are messages you and you don't have to explain a thing.

A private community where nobody judges you. Nobody needs the backstory. Nobody needs to be convinced that your reasons are valid. They already understand why because they're doing it too.

A few months from now, you're making decisions based on what you actually want instead of what you've been willing to put up with.

The situation that brought you to this page is successfully behind you. Your life is different, better, and you now have the instinct to recognize when something has run its course. You utilize your keen ability to plan and execute your exit plan when needed. You no longer stew in situations for months or years wondering when you'll finally have the courage to walk away.

"I have a deeper sense of self-trust and ease now."

S.I., Breakup Table Participant

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"The experience helped me narrow down the things I need to break up with. The hardest one, the one I had known but been refusing to acknowledge."

C.H.

Every day you stay in something you already know is over, you're spending time, money, and energy maintaining it. Resources that could be going into creating and enjoying what you actually want next.

What you want is on the other side of walking away. And it can't start while you're still holding onto the thing you don't want.

Staying costs more than going.

The Part Nobody Talks About

Leaving well is a skill. And nobody taught you how.

You were taught how to stay. How to commit, push through, endure, and be the person who doesn't quit. And then one day you're in something that you want to end and you have no skill set for it. Just guilt and a list of reasons to keep going.

So you stay. Not because the thing is right, but because you don't know how to leave it cleanly. And the longer you wait, the more you start to believe you're the kind of person who can't walk away.

That's a practice problem, not a you problem.

The practice has a name. It's called Breakup Muscle. And like any muscle, it gets stronger the more you use it.

By joining The Breakup Room, you're not just building the ability to leave that one situation. You're becoming someone who doesn't stay in things that aren't working. You join because of a job you've been enduring and realize you've also been showing up to a friendship out of obligation. Or vice versa. And then you see the identity you've been holding onto because you don't know what it means to be without it.

Once you stop carrying the thing that brought you here, you see everything else you've been tolerating. And this time, you won't stew in it for months.

The Breakup Room is where your Breakup Muscle becomes consistent.

"The session on the true cost of staying gave me the opportunity to make connections I likely knew subconsciously but had not pieced together."

S.I.

You don't have to keep tolerating what you don't want. This is how you finally walk away.

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The Details

Every other week. People who trust your decision. People who support you leaving.

Live on Zoom. 60 minutes. Community between sessions.

Methodology
Breakup Artist® Frameworks

Practical tools for leaving cleanly and building forward. Not theory. Not affirmations. The skill to act on what you know.

Live Work
Your Situation, Direct Input

Bring what you're ready to end. Get direct input from Elizabeth and from people navigating their own breakups.

Community
Between Sessions

A private space where the conversation continues. Stay connected to people who won't tell you to just give it more time.

Scope
Every Kind of Breakup

Relationships, careers, businesses, friendships, cities, habits, identities, patterns. Anything you have outgrown and want to move past.

Schedule Every other week, two sessions to choose from
Time Tuesdays 9:30 AM Pacific / 12:30 PM Eastern
Wednesdays 6:00 PM Pacific / 9:00 PM Eastern
Duration ~60 minutes per session
Format Live on Zoom + private community
This is for you if:
You already know something in your life has run its course.
You have known for a while. Weeks, months, and you're approaching years.
You don't need someone to tell you what to do. You need a place that supports you actually doing it.
You want to be around people who won't tell you you're crazy.
You're done thinking about and staying in it. You want to be on the other side, happier and healthier.
This is not for you if:
You're still deciding whether you should leave. This is for people who already know.
You want permission. The Room doesn't give permission. It removes the excuses you have been hiding behind.
You're looking for therapy. This isn't a therapeutic space.
You want to observe. The Room works when you show up and do the work.

People who have done this work.

From The Breakup Table, a 4-day live experience built on the same methodology. The Room is where this work becomes ongoing.

"A wonderful liminal space that is not quite therapy, not quite a conference. A safe space to communicate with like-minded people who all listen to each other."

She has a gentle way of asking the right questions when she sees you struggling with your own narratives. Sometimes all you need is someone to pinpoint a few things and ask you to dig a little more.

P.J.
What were you staying in?

A state of passivity within distractions and coping mechanisms. I had known for at least a year that I was not living in ways that bring me fulfillment and peace, but I was tethered to the behaviors and thoughts.

S.I.
What did you do that you had not done before?

I started talking more. Having conversations I wanted to avoid. Answering the phone when I didn't want to. Being more engaged with family.

D.C.
What is different now?

I have been journaling about taking it easy, being okay with not attacking everything at full steam. The experience provided micro-moments where I thought about my own beliefs differently.

P.J.
How would you describe this?

A safe place run by someone who cares and gives their time for whatever question. A great space for people going through something they can't cut off.

D.C.
Was there a shift?

The experience helped me narrow down the things I need to break up with. The hardest one, the one I had known but been refusing to acknowledge.

C.H.
What is Elizabeth like?

Direct and attentive in a way that will help you move through your cluttered mind and settle into a place of knowing and understanding.

S.I.

What you want is on the other side of the breakup. Let's go.

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Who Built This
Elizabeth Aldana, Breakup Artist

Elizabeth Aldana, Breakup Artist®.

I stayed with partners, jobs, and in patterns I didn't want to be in. Not because I didn't know I wanted out. Because I was good at managing the knowing.

I stayed in a corporate environment that had me questioning my own perception of what was happening around me. I adjusted myself instead of leaving. It slowly eroded my radiance. I stayed in relationships where I lost myself by over-accommodating, becoming whatever version the relationship needed instead of the one I actually was.

Every time, I already knew. And every time, I found ways to justify staying. Called it endurance. Called it commitment. Called it not wanting to be someone who quits.

People don't stay because something is right. They stay because it's tolerable, explainable, or difficult to walk away from. There's a difference between endurance that comes from stretching yourself into something new and unfamiliar and endurance that comes from predictability and fear. From the outside, they look the same. Internally, they cost you different things.

I built The Breakup Room because I know what it's like to sit with that knowing alone. To have people not understand why you know you have to leave. This is the room I needed and didn't have.

Elizabeth, Breakup Artist®

Private Breakup Artist® programs run $2,500 to $8,000. The Breakup Room was built so the methodology doesn't live behind a private program price tag, and so your Breakup Muscle keeps building long after the breakup that brought you here.

Ongoing access. Live sessions. Starting at $25 per month.

The Investment

Two ways in.

Founding memberships open through September 30, 2026.

Founding Member
$300
per year
$25/month, billed annually
Two months free compared to monthly
Founding rate locked as long as you stay
Early access to future features
Shape what The Breakup Room becomes
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Monthly
$30
per month
Full access to every live session
Private community between sessions
Cancel before your next billing cycle
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Cancel anytime within your billing cycle. No contracts. No penalties.

After September 30, membership moves to $35/month or $350/year. Founding members keep their rate for as long as they stay.

Questions you might have.

What if I'm not sure I'm ready to leave?

You don't need to have it all figured out. A lot of people join knowing something isn't working but not yet sure what the move is. The Breakup Room helps you get clear on that and build your Breakup Muscle to act on it when you're ready. The only people this isn't built for are the ones who don't want anything to change.

Is this only for romantic breakups?

No. Members bring careers, businesses, friendships, cities, habits, identities, and patterns. Breakup Muscle applies to any situation you know has run its course. The skill transfers.

What happens in a session?

You show up on Zoom with whatever you're sitting in. Elizabeth walks you through Breakup Artist® frameworks, you get direct input on your situation, and you hear other members working through theirs. Every session is shaped by what the people in the room are actually going through. Two sessions to choose from each cycle: Tuesday mornings and Wednesday evenings. Attend whichever works for you, or both.

What if I can't make every session?

Show up when you can. The private community keeps the conversation going between sessions.

How is this different from therapy?

This isn't therapy and Elizabeth isn't a therapist. Therapy explores why. The Room focuses on what you're going to do about what you already know. Many members have therapists. The two work well together.

Annual vs. monthly?

The first breakup you make in here won't be the last thing that changes. Once you start building your Breakup Muscle, you see everything else you've been tolerating, and you move on it faster. The annual founding membership gives that process the time it needs. It also saves you two months compared to monthly and locks your rate at the founding price. Monthly gives you full access with the flexibility to cancel before your next billing cycle. Same sessions, same community, same everything.

What happens after September 30?

Monthly goes to $35. Annual goes to $350. If you join as a founding member before then, your rate stays where it is as long as you're a member.

I have been thinking about this for a long time.

Then you probably have your answer. That feeling right now, the one where you know but you're still hesitating, is exactly the pattern The Breakup Room exists to break.

It's time to become Breakup Material.

Someone who doesn't ignore what they know. Who acts instead of making themselves smaller. Who leaves cleanly and builds what they actually want. It's what's possible for you.

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